Do not do it because everyone else is doing it. Do not do it because everyone is telling you to do it. Do it because YOU want to and when it all falls down YOU are okay with picking up all the pieces by Yourself.
I have always been one of those people that are highly influenced by peoples opinions and comments, I have literally changed my whole day around because it did not correlate with the plans that my friends had ironed out for their day. I look back at my life and the decisions that i have made based on pointless and unimportant people and it hurts me, It hurts to see that i have wasted almost all my life following and holding on to relationships and friendships that brought no gain in my growth. They (who ever they are) always say if its not benefiting you one way or another let it go. What is the use of a dead branch on a growing tree, its just there, cut it off and allow new branches to grow.
The truth is there is no one that will put you before themselves ever. OH PLEASE HEAR THIS, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU HAVE DONE FOR THEM OR HOW MUCH YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH TOGETHER, NO ONE WILL EVER PUT YOU BEFORE THEMSELVES. I have watched people manipulate the love and the trust of friendship and use it to their own gain. I am not saying all friendships and relationships are based of selfish motives, I am not saying that there is no such thing is true friendship, All I am saying is Put you before anyone else. Do everything you have always wanted to do regardless of whose on board with your plans, eventually everyone will catch up. Do what makes you happy, Its okay if its not the same thing that makes everyone else around you happy. Embrace your mistakes, Believe in your imagination, Go on the journey of your dreams. You can not truly enjoy anything with anyone anywhere if you are worried about what someone somewhere thinks of what you are doing.
Today Message was Inspired by one of the world’s greatest Doctor,
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. – Dr Seuss